Each Friday here at Frugal Workshop, I love sharing the frugal wins, quiet savings, and simple strategies that helped us stretch our budget over the past seven days. It’s a gentle look back at the small things that make a big difference.
When Bartering Doesn’t Work
I had an incident happen last week that I want to discuss. Back in June I made a barter arrangement with someone in exchange for garbage service, outside hose repair, roof repair, and weed eating and mowing in exchange for some of Dad’s equipment downstairs. It was a good deal for both of us if he had kept up his part of the arrangement.
First off he wanted to change our Monday arrangement to Friday. I said no as that is a prime yard sale day in summer, but he had already stopped coming on Monday as he made an arrangement with someone else for another job. Then he backed out of the hose and roof repairs, and when I asked him to work on the lawn, he said he couldn’t for two to three months. Sigh.
I’ve been burned before by people coming here and thinking they can take advantage of me. He already took a great deal of the equipment and was not fulfilling our agreement. So, after discussing it with Bailey I asked him to bring the equipment back and I would pay him for his services he had done so far. He was not happy, but I can sell the equipment for more money and get the repairs done that way, which is what I plan on doing.
The moral of the story is that sometimes bartering doesn’t work. Bailey told me I shouldn’t have let him take the equipment before the work was done and she is right. I feel bad but I can’t let someone take advantage of me either, so this is what was going down last Friday when I didn’t post. I gave him his money and wished him the very best. Lesson learned the hard way.
My Frugal Week
Last week I used a $5.00 off Bealls reward when I was buying some Skinny Syrup.
Monday afternoon I took a tumble backwards and fell onto the concrete floor downstairs and one of Dad’s machines fell onto my foot and leg. I went to urgent care and nothing is broken, just scrapped up and bruised. My doctor has an ace bandage on it for now.
Earning Money
I sold my Reel Lawn Mower on Facebook Marketplace for $50 this week. I bought it to mow our yard and then realized it wasn't powerful enough to do the job, so I made the decision to sell it. I only paid $40 for it, so I made a good deal.
On Sunday I measured and processed fifty-five clothing items for Bailey’s online shops. We barter this with each other and exchange my work for her paying the Internet bill each month, which she has to have for her business. It’s a win-win for both of us.
I received a payout of $35 from a class action lawsuit I had joined for something I had purchased in the past. It takes so long for one to payout that I don't even recall what it was for now.
Yard Sale Saturday
Last Friday I went to a yard sale and picked up:
Brute garbage can $2.00
Cat Condo free
S Hooks 25 cents
Blender Shaker Bottle metal inside 25 cents
Hangers 50 cents
Twin Size Bed Platform Frame $2.00
Oyster Food Chopper $1.oo
Wooden Clock $1.00
Aveeno Body lotion 25 cents
Dove soap 3 pack $1.00
Freebies
I was dropping off some trash the other day and found a couple of freebies at the garbage dump. Someone had left some brand new brake pads, which I brought home for Bailey to sell as they are worth $74.95 of the Napa auto parts website.
I also found a couple of welcome mats and this air stepper fitness machine. We already had one of them upstairs in Bailey's room and now we have one downstairs too. I put a walker in front of it to hold on as I'm not too steady on it.
That is my week in a nutshell. How was your week?
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My week has mostly been appointments, and trying to get all harvested and processed in the garden. I can't seem to catch up at all. You had a great week, but I am sorry the barter did not work out.
I'm sorry the bartering didn't work out, but I think you did the right thing by paying the person for the services provided & requesting the item(s) back. It sounds like their schedule didn't align with what was previously agreed & allowing everyone to move on to someone who could better meet your needs is the right approach. - Hawaii Planner
You were quite kind to wish him well. I'm sure he thought his service's to you were at his own convenience ( if he intended to fulfill). It gets old with being treated as an afterthought. You and Bailey work well together and the bartering with her is a great partnership. Im so sorry about your fall. Please let yourself fully heal.
Bartering is great when it works but less when it doesn't. Again, you found some great deals at yard sales. Out of curiosity, on average how many resells does Bailey have a week. I've seen youtube videos on it, and it seems to be a profitable business.
Glad you didn't let him get by with that. I am sure he thought you'd be a pushover. Good going for standing up for yourself. Hope you are ok after the fall. I had one this week too, must be the week for it. All good here, except a small cut. You got some good deals!!! Have a super weekend.
Sounds like you had a mixed week of good and bad. Sorry to hear about your fall and bad barter, but happy he at least returned your items. He apparently didn't want the items badly enough to actually work for them. Sad. Hope you have a great weekend!
Wow, there are mean people everywhere. I’m glad that the botched trade worked out well in the end! It’s been another busy week for us. It’s still harvest time, but despite the hard work, I’m happy about the harvest—and about not having to buy the things we grow ourselves at the supermarket. Best regards, Sibylle
Dear Belinda, you were very kind 😇 to that man. I don't want to sound sexist 😕 here, but it has been discussed in my area that women have been paying more for services than men and they are trying to put a stop to it. Haircuts, dry cleaning, the list goes on. It isn't that all people take advantage of women by charging them more, but certainly enough. I am so sorry to hear about your fall, dear friend. Sending you much love ❤️ and hugs. 😊
What a week! Both good and bad. I'm sorry the barter didn't work out, but I'm glad you were able to get the things back. It is hard finding good people to do things these days; I know my mil had trouble with people trying to take advantage of her. Ouch on the fall, I'm glad it wasn't worse but take care of yourself and heal. Great finds at the yard sale and great freebies. Hope you have a good weekend.
I sure do miss the old days when people kept their word, back when a handshake was all that was needed. I tell my husband all of the time that I want to go live in Mayberry. I'm just glad he gave you back your tools. I'm sorry to hear about your fall and so thankful that you didn't break anything. Hope you find some treasures at some yard sales this weekend. The temperature her has gone down into the 80's which is wonderful!
That's hard to stick up for yourself but you did it and I'm proud of you!!! I hope he doesn't try to do that to other people. Sounds like you had quite a fall..so glad nothing is broken. Take it easy and have a relaxing weekend.
My week has mostly been appointments, and trying to get all harvested and processed in the garden. I can't seem to catch up at all.
ReplyDeleteYou had a great week, but I am sorry the barter did not work out.
God bless.
I'm sorry the bartering didn't work out, but I think you did the right thing by paying the person for the services provided & requesting the item(s) back. It sounds like their schedule didn't align with what was previously agreed & allowing everyone to move on to someone who could better meet your needs is the right approach. - Hawaii Planner
ReplyDeleteYou were quite kind to wish him well. I'm sure he thought his service's to you were at his own convenience ( if he intended to fulfill). It gets old with being treated as an afterthought. You and Bailey work well together and the bartering with her is a great partnership. Im so sorry about your fall. Please let yourself fully heal.
ReplyDeleteBartering is great when it works but less when it doesn't.
ReplyDeleteAgain, you found some great deals at yard sales.
Out of curiosity, on average how many resells does Bailey have a week. I've seen youtube videos on it, and it seems to be a profitable business.
Glad you didn't let him get by with that. I am sure he thought you'd be a pushover. Good going for standing up for yourself.
ReplyDeleteHope you are ok after the fall. I had one this week too, must be the week for it. All good here, except a small cut.
You got some good deals!!! Have a super weekend.
Sounds like you had a mixed week of good and bad. Sorry to hear about your fall and bad barter, but happy he at least returned your items. He apparently didn't want the items badly enough to actually work for them. Sad. Hope you have a great weekend!
ReplyDeleteWow, there are mean people everywhere.
ReplyDeleteI’m glad that the botched trade worked out well in the end!
It’s been another busy week for us. It’s still harvest time, but despite the hard work, I’m happy about the harvest—and about not having to buy the things we grow ourselves at the supermarket.
Best regards, Sibylle
Dear Belinda, you were very kind 😇 to that man. I don't want to sound sexist 😕 here, but it has been discussed in my area that women have been paying more for services than men and they are trying to put a stop to it. Haircuts, dry cleaning, the list goes on.
ReplyDeleteIt isn't that all people take advantage of women by charging them more, but certainly enough.
I am so sorry to hear about your fall, dear friend.
Sending you much love ❤️ and hugs. 😊
What a week! Both good and bad. I'm sorry the barter didn't work out, but I'm glad you were able to get the things back. It is hard finding good people to do things these days; I know my mil had trouble with people trying to take advantage of her. Ouch on the fall, I'm glad it wasn't worse but take care of yourself and heal.
ReplyDeleteGreat finds at the yard sale and great freebies.
Hope you have a good weekend.
I sure do miss the old days when people kept their word, back when a handshake was all that was needed. I tell my husband all of the time that I want to go live in Mayberry. I'm just glad he gave you back your tools. I'm sorry to hear about your fall and so thankful that you didn't break anything. Hope you find some treasures at some yard sales this weekend. The temperature her has gone down into the 80's which is wonderful!
ReplyDeleteThat's hard to stick up for yourself but you did it and I'm proud of you!!! I hope he doesn't try to do that to other people.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you had quite a fall..so glad nothing is broken.
Take it easy and have a relaxing weekend.