We don’t grow up all at once in youth, we do it slowly, one day at time.Same can be said of aging. We don’t grow old all at once, we do it one day at a time. ~ Belinda
It was a real scorcher here this week.
We’ve been sure to use up all our leftovers, so as to not have any food waste. Oftentimes that means serving some things the next day, which is no problem with us.
I like to make a pasta salad with my lingering spaghetti. With the heat it is the perfect time to make it. Lori
ReplyDeleteThat is a perfect idea, Lori. Thank you, that’s exactly what I’ll do with the spaghetti.
DeleteIt does change the taste compared to rice noodles, but I use spaghetti noodles in lol mein. My husband loves it. I'm sorry about the illness and hard day. I'm glad you received empathy and not dismissal. Grief is unique to each of us. I get waves 10 years later as it would be my dads 96 birthday tomorrow. You and Bailey are a good team.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Sam. Ten years later with your Dad…I believe these feelings will last the rest of our lives. I’ll be thinking of you today in honor of your 97th birthday.
DeleteI would love to find an assistant for a day or two to help me deep clean. It must be so satisfying to have that room back in tip top shape. I’m sure the NP felt awful after finding out your mom had passed. π. As for the lost item, my mom used to let me wear her class ring when I was a young teenager. I took it off at the beach while “tanning” and never saw it again. My mom never got upset about it, but it would definitely be the thing I’d go for!
ReplyDeleteOh, Penny, I would go for your Mom’s class ring too. ((())) Having help in that room was so great. I highly recommend it. :)
DeleteGlad you are feeling better. Nice to have that room all cleaned and fresh. Have a great weekend.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Cheryl. Yes, I am happy with the room. I need to show you all pictures when I’m done. I hope you have a great weekend too!
DeleteWhen my husband and I moved out of our first apartment and into our first home, we accidently left a box of ceramic my mom made me. In the box was a girl dressed in pink, my sister has one that is blue. I miss her and wish I had her back. Unfortunately someone in that apartment building probably sold her. I hope whoever has her now enjoys her as much as I did. But she would be the first thing I looked for in my box.
ReplyDeleteOh, Amy, that is so sad. I hope they love her as much as you did too. My sister and I had little girl banks, mine was yellow and hers was pink. One day when we were all grown she happened to see mine and the memory of hers came back to her. We don’t forget special things like that we had in childhood, do we?
DeleteThat grief is like a rollercoaster sometimes. I'm glad she is looking out for you and you are on the mend.
ReplyDeleteI'm like you some books are just treasures. So glad you found your treasure again.
Thank you, Vickie. Yes, some books are definitely treasures.
DeleteHi Belinda ♥ I'm so sorry I missed the post about your Mom, you have my heartfelt condolences. ♥♥ I sure hope you are feeling better and didn't catch Covid, or any type of flu! I would LOVE your heat right now, it's chilly here, I can't wait for this mini cold snap to pass. Oh btw, I'll be there on Tuesday for movie and pizza night! ☺
ReplyDeleteThank you, Rain. You are always welcome here! π
DeleteI hope you have recovered. I am sure losing your mom has weakened your immune system, grief can do that. Take care my friend.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Kim. I am so much better and have wondered if the grief had something to do with it. Thank you for your concern.
DeleteGrief does come in waves and at the most surprising of times. I hope that you do not have Covid and are better each day.
ReplyDeleteIf I could have anything I have ever lost it would be my old roller skates along with the key to attach them to my shoes. Loved those things.
God bless.
Thank you, Jackie. I am so much better now and have more energy. The roller skates sound like a good memory. π
DeleteI hope you're feeling better, and I'm so glad your practitioner listened to you, and was able to come by.
ReplyDeleteI can't think of anything I've lost with an emotional significance, but I lost a pair of sunglasses over the winter (sledding - I have eyes that are really sensitive to the light due to surgery), & I miss them a lot! I'd had them for 10+ years, and they fit perfectly, and were just the right size (big). I bought a replacement pair, but they just aren't the same. I hope someone found them, & they are enjoying them!
Thank you. Sunglasses are a necessity in my book. I know what it’s like to lose a favorite pair. I never could get the darkness/lightness the same on a pair I replaced. I hope you will get used to your new ones.
DeleteLove and hugs to you. Grief is one of those thing you're glad you feel because it represents to love you have/had but which hurts so much all at the same time.
ReplyDeleteHoping you continue to feel loads better. Thinking of you. xx
Thank you, Joy. You are so sweet. π
DeleteSpaghetti does not go bad, so just save it for when she does want spaghetti. I wish I could find someone to clean. I have paid two different people to clean the stove. It is still filthy, never cleaned, just smeared around. I can do that.
ReplyDeleteHere, it 5 for $22.99, up from $19.99. Once, I saw the deal for $14.99. I have never gotten that meat deal.
That would bother me, them not cleaning like I want it cleaned. I’ve been dusting the furniture this week, getting down in the floor and giving things a once over. Things sure can get dirty.
DeleteOne of our stores has gone up to 5 for $24.99 or some such crazy number. Ugh.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Belinda.
ReplyDeleteI didn't blog for a while and didn't know about your mom. Hugs xxx
I'm glad you are feeling better. Hope your COVID test will be negative.
Take care.xxx
Thank you, Nil. It’s so great to see you back!
DeleteSending hugs! Sounds like you have a good np who really cares. I didn't know that anyone made house calls anymore. Do hope that you are feeling better; I'm so sorry that you have been sick. I'm glad that you were able to get the room cleaned up, and I know it looks great! So glad that Bailey was able to replace the book, that is so special.
ReplyDeleteWe had some strong storms and lost power for a day. At least the storm cooled things down a bit, so it wasn't quite as hot.
Hope you have a good week.
Thank you, Kathy. I was surprised that she did house calls too. We originally had her come for Mom and she to,d me she treats the whole family. She is amazing!
DeleteI feel your pain on losing power. I’m glad it wasn’t longer than one day. Sometimes after a storm it can take longer. It’s great that it cooled off after the storm. The air is usually nice and fresh after a good cleansing rain like that too.
Two things would be first... my mom's star sapphire ring and my silver "mother's" necklace. I enjoyed my visit here. I believe it's my first. I'll read more.
ReplyDeleteBlessings from Harvest Lane Cottage,
Laura
Thank you for visiting, Laura. It’s always so nice to have a new reader. π I hope you have a great weekend.
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